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12 interesting things about the other 1/2 of JillCards, LLC (Jill)

Written by Jill Sorg (Via WordPress JillCards, LLC Blog)

I am going to try to cover items which Dee Dee has not covered, so as to not duplicate interesting facts (I hope…..this may be hard to come up with 12 more, but she’s right, it is making me think).

1) I am a mother of 4 kids (3 are biological).

2) I come from a family of 7 children, in which I fall directly in the middle (middle-child syndrome).

3) Recovery is also a path I follow.  I have been sober for a few 24-hours.

4)  I try to always remember WHERE I have come from, and take NOTHING for granted.

5)  My occupation is in the automotive field.  I previously managed an auto body shop for 13 years, and am currently “Detailing”, until JillCards takes off and makes us famous and stinky rich.

6)  I love forensic shows, such as “The 1st 48”, “Forensic Files” and “The Investigators”.

7)  I ride a Harley-Davidson motorcycle.

8)  I was previously married for 12-1/2 years to the father of my children, stayed single for 15 years, then married the woman of my dreams, last May (2010). 

9)  I have a hard time trying to converse with random people. (Oh, I wish I had the gift of “gab”!)

10) I use words that sound good to me, even if they are not in the Webster’s Dictionary (Funner, Salavitate, etc).

11) My favorite color is yellow and my favorite flowers are sunflowers.

12) I become combative when I get tickled.  (I hate it)

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12 interesting (I think?) things about 1/2 of JillCards, LLC (DeeDee)

Written by Dee Dee Sorg (Via “The Hive”)
 
  1. Jill and I met 13 years ago and quickly became friends.  Although we lived near each other we were the kind of friends in which you could not see for a couple of weeks or so – and pick right up where you left off.  She pushed to get behind my defensive wall and drew me out of my comfort zone.  6 months after I left an 8 year relationship – I knew Jill had something on her mind and I thought maybe it could be “me” – so I put her on the back of my motorcycle with a full tank of gas and told her I wouldn’t let her off until she came clean with whatever was going on in her head!  (Thank God I turned out to be right or she could’ve had me arrested for kidnapping!) Although it was the type of relationship I was comfortable with – it was all new for her (I’ll let you read between the lines on that one.)
  2. On May 22, 2010 I married my best friend in front of 100 of our closest friends and family.  It is only through patience, understanding and a lot of time that our families have come to realize just because society says we’re “different” – we love just the same as everyone else, COMPLETELY.
  3. I am a control freak and everyone around me knows it.  Jill deals with life one moment at a time – I’d much rather have it planned out on my Android with confirmations from all parties involved.
  4. I am a Riders Edge instructor at Sauk Prairie Harley-Davidson, Inc.  I love the opportunity to help people realize their dreams to ride motorcycles safely, coaching them to succeed and exceed their goals one exercise at a time.
  5. I am SO not the creative/talented partner at JillCards, LLC.  I am an avid photographer who enjoys capturing wildlife and friends in their natural habitat.  Jill can take a simple piece of paper, acid free adhesive (see I’m paying attention!) and make a beautiful Send again greeting card.
  6. I am in recovery and have been for a few 24 hours (as we say in the program).  Had I continued using, none of what I enjoy today would be my reality.  It is only through sobriety that the rest of my life is real.
  7. (Okay this is getting harder than I thought…)
  8. I am the mother to 2 teenagers, My son is 19 and my daughter is 15 – I’m not sure but I think they have completed a foreign language somewhere along the line without me knowing it.  UGH – I just don’t get them sometimes – did my parents feel that way?
  9. Not completing my bachelor’s degree is my biggest regret – why haven’t I done it yet….good question for which I can supply a lengthy list of excuses
  10. We developed the “Send again” greeting card concept in the fall of 2009.  Jill had worked with the idea for years but together we invested time, effort and some money and made JillCards, LLC a reality.  We are a small company based in beautiful rural Wisconsin.  Our hand-made personalized cards can be sent again to another person, after receiving it.  For the recycled concept, we use everything from used greeting cards, old calendars, discarded magazines, our pictures, your own photographs, scrapbook materials; just about anything we can get our hands on.  We recycle each card into a unique personal treasure!  To “Send again”, simply remove the message tag on the card backside, and replace it with the already used message tag on the inside of your card.  Now, you are ready to write your own heartfelt message, and “Send again”.  It’s like re-gifting a greeting card! We encourage anyone to submit their own photos for an even more personal touch.
  11. Jill and I are almost complete opposites.  I previously mentioned our different approaches to life, but that’s only the beginning.  Jill comes from a large family – mine was small (2 daughters), she needs lots of sleep and until my recent back surgery – I needed very little and worked 14+ hours per day most of the year, she’s creative and has a can do anything attitude – I don’t feel very creative and can get frustrated and give up easily.
  12. Now all the stuff we share – 1st and foremost our love for each other and everyday living, side-by-side, JillCards – the home business we started in the fall of ’09, together we have 5 kids all of which are VERY different, we LOVE coffee and have a crazy fun day/night sitting at a coffee shop with our laptops, after she learned to ride motorcycles – she became almost as addicted to Harley-Davisons as I am, we love to laugh with each other doing something OR absolutely nothing but giggling like little girls, we also have some of the best parents and best friends that anyone could ask for!  Thanks for this opportunity to think a little deeper in 2011!

08/10/2010 Daily Thought

You can have a life filled with awe at any age. You can awake each morning, potentially inspired, centered, with a sense that many options and opportunities stretch before you. Awe is a power unto itself, and by its very nature transforms us. The best part is it is free, natural and continually available. All you need is the willingness to awaken to awe, and to do so by trying a new approach to life.

By Kirk J. Schneider, Ph.D.

08/09/2010 Daily Thought

08/08/2010 Daily Quote

Not one Soul is going to be lost. In fact, there aren’t any lost Souls. The Soul always knows where it is. It just doesn’t care.

The Soul knows it is going to outlast your body, it knows it’s going to outlast the thoughts you’ve been having, it knows it’s going to go beyond the imagination, and your feelings have betrayed you for so long that it pays little attention to them. So why shouldn’t it be happy in these lower worlds?

Our misidentification causes us to go into the quandary of the mind to second-guess. And yet the Soul says, “I’m here, I’m present. I’m not over there. I’m here, I’m present. This is the moment.”

– John-Roger
(From: The Tao of Spirit, p. 139)

Some people come into our lives…..Who belongs to this quote?

 I am looking for the author of this quote….

Can anyone out there help me?

 
“Some people come into our lives and quickly go.
Some people move our souls to dance.
They awaken us to new understanding with the passing whisper of their wisdom.
Some people make the sky more beautiful to gaze upon.
They stay in our lives for awhile, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never ever the same.”

A Glutton For Punishment….

Ok, so I’m not so great at this blogging thing.  I think once I get going, I’m ok, but the frequency of putting my thoughts to words have been few & far in between.

I have a feeling of being blessed today!  I can remember a time, awhile back, when I would get up in the morning with an overwhelming feeling of dread.  As soon as I opened my eyes, I could feel my whole body as a ton of bricks.  It would take everything in me to get the motivation to cook up a pot of coffee and get it down.  After the WHOLE pot, I would be good for a while, but it seemed as if I would CRASH in about 2-hours, if I even made it that long. 

You see, I have the disease of addiction looming in my background.  I have struggled with alcohol and it’s obsession for as long as I can remember.  I have come to believe that alcohol is not my only vice.  I am a smoker, and every time I try to quit, I seem to be smoking more (anyone who knows me can recall my famous line…”I sure have been smoking a lot since I’ve quit).  Mind over matter? Probably!

I also recognize that when I’m sad, I like to eat.  When I’m bored, I like to eat.  When I’m happy, we need to go out to eat.  Mind over matter? Probably!

I began my working career (or at least the one that I’m in now, and the only one I feel which really counts), over 15 years ago.  I literally have put my sweat, heart & soul in this job.  I fooled myself into believing that I NEEDED to put in 60 hours a week in order to provide for my family, as I was a single parent.  That may be some-what, but, the true fact is that I had never felt more safe and removed from the general public, as when I was at the shop.  I felt no one could touch me there.  Mind over matter? Probably!

I had become controlled by all of my vices (glutton).  I could not go anywhere unless I knew alcohol wouldn’t be served there; unless I had enough smokes in my pack; unless I had some food in my backpack; and unless my phone was on my hip, because work might call, and I may need to leave!

What kind of life is that?  I wonder how many people in this world are controlled by their outside environments and/or vices?  Where is the weak link? And, how can we break it?

I would like to hear from all my cyber-peeps….What’s your vice?

AND,

Are you a glutton for punishment?

An important part of my past is catching up….

…FINALLY!
A few weeks ago when attending a function at Northport, I was blessed to run into a big part of my past, that has been missing from my life today.

Last night I held a dinner party for 4. Dee Dee and I had the privilege of getting to know one of my kids again, along with his beautiful wife. I say one of my kids, because I have alway felt Mark was part of me and my kids’ life during a very fundamental era of becoming sober and creating who I am today. I got to know this young fellow when he was about 10 years old, and until the age of 18, I was his legal guardian.

I would like to think that I was an important part of his developement, but more importantly, I realized last night that he was more of an importance in my developement. During the time of separation after the age of 18, he has really become into himself, and has also gotten married. I truly had a good time with Mark and Jenny last night! I was very nervous throughout the day, with a lot of expectations. I had to tell myself many times through the day, “Grant me Serenity to accept the things I cannot change, Courage to change the things I can, and Wisdom to know the difference”. Needless to say, everything worked out great.

During those years with Mark, he has given me so much of who I am today. He gave me the courage to go back into my hometown and fight for my biological kids, Cale, Coleman & Cleary. And, because I did that, I have a wonderful relation with them, and a great feeling of gratitude of what I have done for & with them.

Mark gave me the confidence in myself, and settled my inner spirit enough to realize that “I am a good parent”.
It’s easy to look back today, and see all that he (as a child) as given me. It’s easy to look at the big picture after you are removed from it, but in the midst of a lot of chaos during that period of my, I had no idea how much he had given me.
That, again, leads me to thoroughly believe that “everything happens for a reason”. It gives me a lot of hope that maybe I have been an important part of someone else’s journey, and don’t even know it. I can only hope, right? The true blessing after all is that we are all human beings, just trying to get by, a day at a time.

I have been, and am, truly lucky to have the people in my life today, that I call family & friends. AND now I have 2 more people to add!

It’s late, and I cannot sleep. Lots of …

It’s late, and I cannot sleep. Lots of stuff going through my mind as orders are starting to come in, and I’m very excited about that. In addition to keeping up with our orders, I am trying to do our wedding announcements. One month after our wedding, is my nieces wedding (huge catholic wedding) which I have had the honor of taking on the responsibility of her announcements, programs, etc. This is the time of year I have been waiting for, and our business appears to be taking off.
I would like nothing better than to quit my job and work JillCards, LLC full-time. It is a creative aspect of my life which gives me a lot of serenity, and peace.
We had a visitor today, and it was so exciting to see Ana again. Ana is a younger friend which we met through our recovery program. She has since moved on to participate in the rest of her life IN RECOVERY in another state, and I must say that she looks great. She seems to be at peace with herself and doing the best she can in this mixed up and crazy world. Way to go Ana….Good things come to those who do the “next right thing”.
Last weekend we traveled to Minnesota for a “girls getaway”. It was a fantastic weekend with good food and great company. We all did a lot of laughing, and we went away full, happy and content! We really should do that at least once every 6-months, as sort of soul a cleansing and renewing.
I hope everyone is doing well (and sleeping) and are healthy & fit.

Please check out the photos I have added…

Please check out the photos I have added, and check out our website. I would really like to know how people feel about the navigation of the site, our twitters, comments, etc. Also, check out our wedding blog. Seems a lot of people have been visiting our site for Dee Dee’s writings. Isn’t she a great author?
Thanks so much! Jill

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